One of my first questions when doing shows is "Are you straight or bi" because it immediately tells me a lot of how to tailor the encounter, and the majority of guys describe themselves as straight, are interested in touching/playing with me but not being penetrated, and prefer a female persona and behavior from me and to treat me as a women.īisexual guys are far more interested in doing "whatever" all the acts both receptive and penetrative, and being a "dom" or "sub" is unrelated, most people are subs and the common straight sub act is to "worship" me as well as my genitals and to be treated to a femdom experience. A preOP female to male would likely be a huge turn off, as would a "twink", and they often have relatively little interest in anal sex, especially themselves being penetrated, their interests are usually in the aesthetic or in sucking on penises, not on being fucked. These men have no interest in other men whatsoever. These are traditionally manly guys in traditionally manly proffessions who keep their predilections on the downlow for fear of being ostrecized or abused for their inclinations.īut there does appear to be a massive interest in penises among otherwise straight males.
People were seeking us out for who we were "chasers" as it was and that we were not in conventional circles.īut having male friends who were openly bi, or semi closeted about being bi, and talking to them, I've come to the conclusion that liking quote unquote "gay shit" is heavily frowned upon. My main concern was that there was an obvious sampling bias. So her estimate of about 50% surprised, and even shocked me. She's been with a lot of people and is a fair bit older than me and I would actually trust her judgement on this, I was going to guess maybe one in three, and was trepidatious to guess even that high. I asked my gf about what percentage of self proclaimed straight men liked penises, to which she replied about 50%. well anyway, so that's my gimmick so to speak, that and just being down to earth and conventionally female. I'm preHRT and have a very feminine face, especially when I cheat with makeup, and then have a giant. my genitals, and I noticed a huge amount of guys who would describe themselves as straight (and I would too.) who want to suck on cock, or generally like the aesthetic of a penis on an otherwise conventionally female person. I'm also dating a trans girl who is older and has been on HRT for a while.Īnyway, my main draw has been well. I'm a trans camgirl and I've been making a lot of money doing so, I'm saving up for hormones and just in general it's financing a lot of girly stuff for me. This is not an endorsement of the term or its acceptability. I know, I know, won't someone think of the poor straight cis male? But I think looking at this frame of refrence can explain the idea more, and can help parse the transphobic elements of this concept from the homophobic ones.ĭisclaimer: For the sake of brevity I will be using the word "trap" a lot. I wanted to discuss it, but I don't have a forum to do so, so I hope you'll listen with an open mind.
I know that Contrapoints was going to do a video on this, and I have been thinking about it a lot lately.